There are various ways to feel happiness. You can feel happy when the desires and aspirations are met. You are happy when you are in good health and not granted sick by the Almighty. You are happy when you and your family needs can be met. You are so happy when your partner loves and cares for you. And many more things that can bring true happiness to you.
However, we often encounter people who are endowed with many reasons to be happy, but in fact he can not feel happiness. Why is that?
There is a wise sentence we ought to ponder,
"Not happy that makes you grateful, but gratitude that makes you happy."
In this life, surely there will you have, and some are quite you see as the property of others. Some are coming, and some are gone.
In this life, surely you will succeed in one and a few things, but you probably fail in one and a few things.
In this life, you will laugh and you too will cry. So how do you make sense of your life, sometimes that's what it fool you.
Why are you unhappy?
First, you compare your life with others so that comes up is "the grass looks greener" in your eyes. This causes you to not stop salivating to see other people's lives. As a result, you feel your life is no longer fun and happy.
Secondly, what makes you unhappy is because you often wished about the past. For example, "If I had ... [read: dot-dot-dot]". A variety of life choices you have taken your regret, your life is more often filled with "nostalgia" of the past who obviously could not be returned. You had to be half-hearted live your life today.
Virtually every person is given the same dose of time each day: 24 hours! That time I went through and the very same time that you live. Hopefully in time to keep going and not going back, we could pass it with a busy grateful for everything that we experience, and busy ourselves to enrich the meaning of presence on earth.
Let us thankful for what you have today ... If not, then be prepared to suffer ...
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Enjoyment who you have is who you feel right now, you can breathe, eat, work, interact, learn. And the pleasure that must be thankful that you will provide for your own happiness.
KEEP THE SPIRIT OF HAPPINESS and works for YOU..!